The So Called "Pleasing Others"
What does that really mean? Does it mean we have to be nice to others every time or that we have to suck things up just to make others happy...? Honestly I see no difference. Whenever we don't feel like talking or doing something for someone else we usually suck things up [depending on who we're talking about of course] and do so, we might do it cause we think that's the right thing but there's something hidden behind our action and that is our hope to please that certain someone so things will be better for everyone else including ourselves.
The truth is, all we're doing is lying to ourselves and the one's we're trying to "please" so hard. Even when we try and do what our parents want instead of speaking our mind, that's not only being respectful but we're also trying to please them to make our relationship easy.. It might be hard to accept but as humans that's just part of our nature, sadly. It might not bother everybody but it bothers me to see how conformist society can be now days, it sickens me to think we can't be better than that. Are we really that scared to end up alone in the world...?
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